by OG75 August 26, 2017

by JD yo! May 21, 2011

It is when a man or woman is obviously gay but doesnt know it until later..(gay-later)...usually after marrying and having children.
I told Steph, "my friend Jeff is a gay-ter, he's married with kids but he loves to play dance dance revo., write poetry, and always checking out my husband!"
by lynlyn70 October 4, 2008
