A honourable soldier who is Turkish. A ayanlar is always loyal and kind unless you go wrong by them. There is only one type of ayanlar and anyone and everyone with that last name are related.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.