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A straight female who has an unusually strong desire to befriend gay men.

If you were alarmed by or made curious by others' definitions often including an explanation concerning the woman's general unattractiveness, please read the following:

In my personal experience, having been to a few gay parties myself, there is an overwhelming (100%, so far) tendency for the straight girls at the party who strongly befriend the gay guys to be rather unattractive, in one way or another.

None I have spoken with, and I am a very curious and outspoken person, have had an easy time with straight guys.
A woman who chooses to have unusually significant friendships with gay men.
Fag Hag by Ratio May 24, 2005
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A fag hag is a woman who enjoys hanging out with gay men.

FROM www.subversiveminds.com/gear/faghag.htm
Julie is a fag hag, she just loves hanging out with John and Steve.
fag hag by Reggie23 June 11, 2006
The term fag-hag stretches from women who simply enjoy the company of gay men, to those who fall in love with gay men, and even those who try to “Convert” gay men into straight men. There are even situations in which Straight Women and Gay Men marry and live happy lives together.
Friendship: Maria (hetero) likes to be with Tom (gay) all the time. They are "Safe" because each party knows that the relationship is just friendship. She is a fag hag.

Love: Sarah usually falls in love with gay men. She is a fag hag.

Converters: Pat is always annoying Mike to convert and become hetero. Mike is very pissed off. She is a fag hag.
fag hag by John January 8, 2004
A woman who has more gay male friends than others, leaving a shortage of fags.
Jennifer: Wanna go to the mall?
Dina: No sorry I'm already going with Richard tonight and tommmorow with Cliff.
Jennifer: You are such a fag hag you fucking bitch! Give me one of them!
Dina: No way!
fag hag by Insane Nu Yawka August 8, 2005
a woman who sprung forth from the clutches of a gay man to learn how to suck cock, put on make-up, walk in heels, talk filthy to put off any desireable straight man (cause any desireable straight man is probably gay any way). Whose hair and make-up get bigger and brighter as the years of alcohol wear in. Suffers from moments of hysteria and self-delusion...often. Loves kids but only if they can match and fit into her luggage. Enjoys bon bons (probably too much). Listens to George Michael, and can use the word MARY as a noun, verb, adjective, pronoun, insult, compliment, and prayer all at the same time...that ladies and gentlemen is a fag hag.
fag hag by aimlesswander April 10, 2007
a female who is abnormally friendly and loyal to a homosexual, usually copying everything the homosexual does, and in extreme cases, my even wordswitch teamsword
dude 1:dude, mallory only switched teams cause she's matt's fag hag
dude 2: yeah, but she's still really fucking hot!
dude 1: no shit!
fag hag by Joel February 26, 2003
one that is best friends, usually the best friend is a female, to a male gay person.
Derik and his fag hag went out to the club last night.
fag hag by jellmo January 12, 2008