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Pick me

Shaming:
Any loving a man female being shamed by the seething flock of arrogant/snobbish control freak women - she doesn't place above him. (her commitment to the daily choice to love = loyally serving/submitting/tolerating/etc being useful to him - to add to his life, not harm it; not having others on the same level or above him in any way)
Anyone on any level sub to man or not hating men - supportive and pleasing to be with, instead of: impudent, greedy, demanding, egotistical, hedonistic, hubristic, transactional, harmful.. - overall repulsive, expecting simping/slaving for them.
Pecking at her like psychopathic chickens; exploitative or despising men, want to manipulatively impose control upon them (it's all the projections they say about men, but in reverse, being a twisted, incapable of empathy, parody on masculine herself), placing their flock of women above the man.
From either leftover women or insecure women with (naturally too empathetically biased for fem) men they've 'trained' to be an expendable utility. Destructive to any other relationship, that doesn't give them attention or follow imposed template - normalizing hers, they'd probably call you that.
Popularized on tiktok - a mental institution catalog / personal diary of deranged women.

Hypocrisy call-out:
Virtue signaling female, that fakes to love a man for attention or other gain - similar to thot/tradthot. Like looking for soft life pseudo-trad bimbo-for-hire gold diggers.
- You're such a sycophant pick me girl.
- At least I'm not a lazy manhating sadist.
by veinsofgold May 5, 2025
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Pick-Me Girl

A girl who thinks that she is "Not like other girls," because she hangs out with guys and quote, "Does't do girly things." unquote. The truth is they are just annoying.
Pm:I'm not like other girls, I don't wear makeup, and I hang out with the guys!
Everyone: Have you heard of pick-me girls?
Pm: No...
by damian_brown_1victoryroyale February 24, 2022
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Pick-me

A girl or boy (usually a girl) who acts like she doesn't need help, but then makes a "mistake" because she or he wants attention. A pick-me is also very dramatic.
Pick-me: "Hi!"

Person 1: "Hello! Oh can I help you carry those?"

Pick-me: "I'm ok thank you! *falls on purpose*"

Person 1: "OMG! Are you ok?"

Pick-me: "yes.... ow!"

Person 1: "What?!"

Pick-me: "My leg hurts.... i need to go to to the ER!!!"

Person 2: "Bro shes such a pick me"
by i.like.cats December 11, 2023
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Pick me

The term pick me is used for people who specifically drag attention to themselves. Wanting people to feel sorry for them or just being sorry individuals themselves.
Example: “Man, that guy Taron is such a Pick me ass nigga”.
by Pheonix king March 14, 2022
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Pick me girl

A femcel term meaning a normal, rational and usually attractive woman, who is not a salty generalising misandrist.

It is a coping term that femcels love using because nobody wants to date them for their horrible behavior (i.e., Nobody picks them.)
Femcel: All men are bad, and I hate all men because none of them want to date me.
Pick me girl: That's not a nice thing to say, stop generalising all men.
Femcel: OMG you are putting women down, you are such a pick-me girl!!!
by Washington's Spoon February 6, 2025
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Pick me

Pick me is the equivalent to Aina
“Omg Amelia is such a pick me. She’s just like a Aina”
by hagli2098 December 3, 2023
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Pick Me

A term coined by bitter feminists to shame non feminist women from agreeing with the criticisms hurled at modern feminist women by anti feminist traditionalist men. It acts as a deflectionary tactics to intimidate righteous women into silence because the feminist man hating agenda needs all of modern women's compliance for it to work.

Pick Me labels have been refashioned into an insult for traditional women no different than being labeled a house wife is akin to being a slave to a man.

The reality is a Proverbs 31 woman is a Pick Me.
“She’s always agreeing with those MGTOW men about modern progressive women criticisms, she’s such a pick me, eww.”
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