Pick me boy

A man who asserts that he is unlike ("not all men" movement) most other men, in order to gain attention, approval and considered innocent of the actions of other people (men in this scenario).

Same definition of "pick me girl".

"not all men! *proceeds to generalize about all women*"
"I'm not like this, not all men are like this."

Sentences of a "pick me boy".

by terrashy August 25, 2023

Political Pick Me

A white female who talks about how bad white people are to black people

"Linda is over there apologizing about being white to a black person, what a Political Pick me!"

by Landiah February 11, 2022

Pick Me Girl

A girl who puts down other girls for male attention.

Melike is a pick me girl. She spreads rumors about others to get attention from 4’9 boys.

by ecrinsu March 7, 2025

Pick-me

A term used to refer to those perceived as going out of their way to fit in with/appeal to members of a dominant group within their society. The pick-me is usually a member of a marginalized group within that society.

“Yes, let’s criticize the so-called pick-me and not the system of oppression that leads a person to putting the desires of others ahead of their own dignity.”

by Verbal assassin September 10, 2022

pick me

Trenton Stevens

her: your so pick me

him: what’s pick me?
her: trenton stevens

by booboo51738 May 5, 2025

Pick me

The term "pick-me" generally refers to a person, typically a woman, who attempts to gain validation from men by appearing to be different from or less threatening to other women, often at the expense of those same women. This validation is often sought through acts or statements that imply they are "not like other girls" and align themselves with male interests or perspectives. The term is often used in a derogatory way, implying that the person is being disingenuous and seeking attention by appearing to be "one of the boys" or superior to other women.

Ex: “Syerra is such a pick me”

by WHIM WHAMIEE May 14, 2025

Pick me

Attention starved individual (M or F) that will do everything to be the centerpiece of attention, by clothing, attitude, loudly voicing divisive opinions, use antagonizing speech, slurs and strong words out of the blue. Expert at annoying people and getting away with it without getting punched.

We were having a nice conversation when that pick me guy with an anime avatar started to cuss at everyone and derail the conversation

by Vorien December 21, 2024