T.O.L: stands for "Tree Of Life", originally from an alternative fashion/homeware store which is associated with hippies and other friends of the forest.
After many attractive ladies worked there, it has become a synonym used by specifically males do describe the modern hot hippy chicks and seperate them from the ugly, fat, man hating female hippies.
When your boss takes the department out all night and repeatedly insists on paying the bill and uses a company credit card knowing that it won't be accepted. Then when the bill comes, he pretends its the 18 year old waitresses fault and makes her cry while calling her a c*nt. You then proceed by leaving the establishment without paying the bill, thus punking the group, forcing them to pay the bill.