When a person, often a man, is so submissive in their affection, at times mistakable for an obsession, for another person that it comes at the cost of their own dignity.
This sort of dynamic will often be very one-sided and unbalanced in regard to how much time and/or money is invested in the relation, and how much favour or
attention is gained in return.
It does not
necessarily need to be time or money, it can also regard
social standing or dignity in regard to reducing themselves to a servant for the person in focus.
Some female Twitch streamer's
social media post:
"My moderator flew thousands of miles just to see me! It was a
great time hanging out! See you in chat!"
The moderator's reply:
"You are even more beautiful in person! I am honoured to be one of the few lucky ones to guard and keep your chat safe!"
Some random user's reply:
"lmao simp"