A they/them lesbian is a woman, female-aligned person, or maybe even non-aligned person who identifies as a lesbian and uses they/them pronouns. They could use they/them pronouns because they're nonbinary, or for another reason such as disconnection from womanhood. They are completely valid, and have been from the start.
by sarah_a_c October 14, 2020
A lesbian (Woman or fem aligned nonbinary person) who uses they/them pronouns. Pronouns don't always necessarily mean gender.
Person 1: Jessie is a theysbian.
Person 2: What is that?
Person 1: They are a lesbian who uses they/them pronouns and you should respect their identity.
Person 2: What is that?
Person 1: They are a lesbian who uses they/them pronouns and you should respect their identity.
by sapphic6000 September 26, 2020
by suck_my_d33 June 15, 2021