A “bate” is a
date where the primary intent is a casual hookup or a one-night stand. Unlike a “plate,” where there is little expectation, a “bate” is more direct in its purpose. The term plays on the phonetic swap from “
date” to “bate” (a nod to the slang for
masturbation), emphasizing its sexual nature. A date can start as a standard “date” and naturally turn into a “bate.”
Jamie: “So, how was your
date?”
Jordan: “Oh, it ended up being more of a bate, we both knew what we wanted.”
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Sophie: “Are you going on a
date with that guy from the bar?”
Claire: “A date? Nah, he's cute but all I want with him is just a bate.”