Consensual Nonconsensuality

The act of giving the consent while pretending not to consent (in BDSM). This term was coined by Biaman Basu in The Commerce of Peoples: Sadomasochism and African American Literature. This action involves two participants and their willing to test the waters. For example, one partner pretends not to like being tied up while the other pretends to force it. Another example, in literature, is reading a text that is fragmented and irritating, but still stimulating. Both parties agree ahead of time as to what lines cannot be crossed, but can still be taunted, and as always, a safe word is used to ensure protection.

Before the play scene:

Bob: I'm going to beg you to stop whipping me, but please don't.

Sally: Ok, I've got your consensual nonconsensuality.

During the play scene:

Bob: Oh Sally! Please stop! You are hurting me!

(Sally doesn't stop)

by M.Hanks May 19, 2014

consensus

The majority of opinion. Usually reffering to a majority of people in a group that have agreed to something.

The consensus of the group was that they should improvise for the play :)

by 0wNaGe.LTD February 22, 2007

consent non consent

Consent non consent (CNC) is a sexual fantasy/kink or fetish. Often used as a coping mechanism for rape or sexual assault survivors to reclaim authority over their own body. In CNC two consenting adults engage, have a safe word and know each other's limits. One forces the other, while the other pretends to not enjoy what's happening. This is also known as rape play but rape can be a triggering word to victims so CNC is preferred.

"I tried Consent non Consent last night with James to help with my trauma! It was very freeing."

"Wow, that's great! I hope you're able to feel better, Make sure you stay safe though!"

"Our safe word is kiwi! Don't worry."

by Del's Definitions June 7, 2020

age of consent

The age of consent is the age determined by the state at which a person can legally have sexual intercourse. For someone above this age to have sexual relations with someone below is considered statuatory rape. Most countries set their age of consent between 16-18, but some in certain countries it is as low as 12, or as high as 25*

*Homosexuality is usually higher.

The age of consent in the United Kingdom is 16, save for northern Ireland, where it is 17.

by Kung-Fu Jesus April 15, 2004

consent

easy, you see if you don't have my consent, you can't do something involving me.

person 1 - ayo look at this

person 2 - what the fuck you didn't have my consent to be recording me.

basically don't record someone taking a shit if they don't want u to

by egirlmommy January 25, 2021

consensual text

consensual text describes a mutual textually satisfying relationship between two consenting adults.

Jim: Man!!! That's the 7th text you've received in the last five minutes...isn't that a bit too intense?

Mike: No, I like it. It's just consensual text.

by MikeBus November 21, 2010

cowser

Cute word for a cow.

OMG that cowser is goin' "moo moo moo" till the cows come home!

by Freybjorg April 17, 2020