a bisexual is simply attracted to both the male and female sex. there are many misconceptions about the sexual orientation, such as every bisexual is 50% into guys and 50% into girls, whereas they may be mostly into girls and partly into guys. another is that bisexuals partake in the erasure of the non-binary genders, which is absolutely false. bisexuals are mostly attracted to two sexes rather than just the two binary genders, and- yes- there is a difference. bisexual girls are not straight girls that like to flirt or have sex with other girls when they're drunk, and they are not straight girls who pretend to be into girls so people don't call them typical cisgender-heterosexuals when they do something shitty. bisexual men are not metrosexual guys who "look" gay. bisexual people are very valid and are not straight people looking for attention, nor are they gay people who"choose" to be straight every now and then. and not only cisgender people are bisexual.
blair broke up with her boyfriend and is now dating a girl. people keep saying she is experimenting with lesbianism, rather than listening to her when she truthfully states she is just bisexual.
by nonbinarybisexual April 5, 2017
Get the bisexualmug. supposed "gangsta"-omigod you're so gay, you stupid faggatron! i hate you cuz you're gay! and the books you read is gay!! huhu,huhuhuhu!
me, going up to the "gangsta" so i can bitch about him yelling at someone for being gay- YOU KNOW WHAT?!?! I'M BISEXUAL! DO I LOOK GAY TO YOU?!? HOW DO YOU THINK I FEEL ABOUT YOU YELLING AT SOMEONE BECAUSE OF THERE SEXUALITY! STFU AND FUCK OFF YOU FUCKING FUCK!!!!
"gangsta"-erm.............YOU GAY! YOU GAY! YOU GAY!!
me-jesus christ. *kicks "gansta" in the testicals*
"gangsta"-omygod..that gay gurl just kicked me in my nutsack................YOU STILL GAY DOE!!! HUHUHU-HUHUHUHUHU!!
me, going up to the "gangsta" so i can bitch about him yelling at someone for being gay- YOU KNOW WHAT?!?! I'M BISEXUAL! DO I LOOK GAY TO YOU?!? HOW DO YOU THINK I FEEL ABOUT YOU YELLING AT SOMEONE BECAUSE OF THERE SEXUALITY! STFU AND FUCK OFF YOU FUCKING FUCK!!!!
"gangsta"-erm.............YOU GAY! YOU GAY! YOU GAY!!
me-jesus christ. *kicks "gansta" in the testicals*
"gangsta"-omygod..that gay gurl just kicked me in my nutsack................YOU STILL GAY DOE!!! HUHUHU-HUHUHUHUHU!!
by xXjenny_loveXx April 1, 2008
Get the bisexualmug. Somebody who is romantically and sexually attracted to men, women and any other gender identification. (Note : Pansexual means that you love somebody despite or not regarding/caring about their gender whilst bisexual just means loving all genders)
Prejudice faced by bisexuals :
People often think it's easier to be a bisexual girl then a bisexual man but this is simply not true. As a bisexual girl I face just as many prejudices as guys. It's thought by some that a bisexual girl has it easier as some men find bisexual females attractive, but honestly this doesn't make it any easier. This leads to the sexualization of bisexual females and the stereotype that we're all sex fiends or pretending to be bi to attract these type of men. This is not to say, that men don't face prejudice too. I'm just trying to make the point that both women and females face biphobic behaviour. Some people say that bisexuals are people who are really gay or straight, that are saying their bi to get attention or avoid coming out as gay.
Positive things about being bisexual :
Once you accept your sexuality it's a great feeling and allows you to stop pushing down feelings you may have once tried to supress. Also, both guys and girls are amazing so if you're attracted to both, there's no point limiting yourself to one gender.
Prejudice faced by bisexuals :
People often think it's easier to be a bisexual girl then a bisexual man but this is simply not true. As a bisexual girl I face just as many prejudices as guys. It's thought by some that a bisexual girl has it easier as some men find bisexual females attractive, but honestly this doesn't make it any easier. This leads to the sexualization of bisexual females and the stereotype that we're all sex fiends or pretending to be bi to attract these type of men. This is not to say, that men don't face prejudice too. I'm just trying to make the point that both women and females face biphobic behaviour. Some people say that bisexuals are people who are really gay or straight, that are saying their bi to get attention or avoid coming out as gay.
Positive things about being bisexual :
Once you accept your sexuality it's a great feeling and allows you to stop pushing down feelings you may have once tried to supress. Also, both guys and girls are amazing so if you're attracted to both, there's no point limiting yourself to one gender.
Example of things a bisexual could say (I included some ones that show sexual attraction and some that show romantic attraction) :
eg. That male YouTuber is so hot. I'd totally bang him.
eg. She's really fit. Her red lipstick and long socks turn me on.
eg. I have a crush on a guy from my class I'd love to date him.
eg. I miss my ex-girlfriend but I have to move on and find someone knew.
Example of the type of conversation a bi person can get into since many people will assume you're straight or gay. They don't consider that you could like both. (I wish people irl were as accepting as B and C are in this when they finally realise A is bi) :
Everybody (all girls) : *talking about 'hot' males*
Person A (bi one) : Yeah, isn't Toby hot.
Person B : Totally.
Person A : Yeah and Sophie's also really attractive. I'd totally date her.
Person C : But, you're a girl...
Person A : Yeah and?
Person B : So you're a lesbian? But you just called a guy hot.
Person A : Toby is hot, though.
Person C : So you're straight?
Person A : No, I like both genders. I'm bisexual.
Person B : Oh, I get it.
Person C : That makes sense. I never thought of that. Cool.
eg. That male YouTuber is so hot. I'd totally bang him.
eg. She's really fit. Her red lipstick and long socks turn me on.
eg. I have a crush on a guy from my class I'd love to date him.
eg. I miss my ex-girlfriend but I have to move on and find someone knew.
Example of the type of conversation a bi person can get into since many people will assume you're straight or gay. They don't consider that you could like both. (I wish people irl were as accepting as B and C are in this when they finally realise A is bi) :
Everybody (all girls) : *talking about 'hot' males*
Person A (bi one) : Yeah, isn't Toby hot.
Person B : Totally.
Person A : Yeah and Sophie's also really attractive. I'd totally date her.
Person C : But, you're a girl...
Person A : Yeah and?
Person B : So you're a lesbian? But you just called a guy hot.
Person A : Toby is hot, though.
Person C : So you're straight?
Person A : No, I like both genders. I'm bisexual.
Person B : Oh, I get it.
Person C : That makes sense. I never thought of that. Cool.
by beingbisexual September 1, 2013
Get the Bisexualmug. For definition, see gay.
by heatshedfogphase May 16, 2008
Get the bisexualmug. A word known to mean attraction to both sexes. For men it can also define an otherwise married/straight appearing man who enjoys being the receiver of oral sex by another male or the active partner in anal sex with another male.
Jack is married but gets bj's from and likes to screw Phil from time to time. He doesn't consider himself gay.
by Rod September 16, 2004
Get the bisexualmug. A convenient way to live, although it isn't much of a choice. Being bisexual usually comes naturally, and more often occurs in women than men because women are just more sexual than men in that way. You can, however, tell yourself that you are bisexual until you believe it and it may just happen.
by shani lyric May 13, 2005
Get the bisexualmug. negativity towards bisexuals. often, the negation of the very existance of bisexual people - instead believing that bisexuals are undecided in their sexual orientation, and are actually "straight" or "gay".
this is a commonly heard example of bisexualism:
"he says he's bi, but we know he really just goes for dick."
"he says he's bi, but we know he really just goes for dick."
by marcus, of the fuck house January 27, 2008
Get the bisexualismmug.