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Tomcat is an older guy that sneaks into the homes of younger women for sex.
John: It looks like 40 year old Jay is robbing the cradle with this 18 year old girl named Bri.

Charley: Yup, Jay has always been a Tomcat, but one of these days that girl's parents are going to shoot him when they catch him.
Tomcat by Box Worm November 24, 2019
A superior, experienced sexual partner, male or female. Their sex becomes the benchmark for all future sexual partners. His/her sex is all you can think of for days or weeks after the hookup.
I told Juan that his dick game was weak, so I could cuff him, but it’s fire af and he’s a lowkey tomcat.
Tomcat by AmberChoseThose September 23, 2020
a dog that acts like a cat. (also works in the other way: a tomdog is a cat that acts like a dog.)
"Your dog is such a tomcat!"
tomcat by akiboiii November 4, 2020
A bi girl who presents masculinly.
She's a tomcat.
Tomcat by snapdrag January 5, 2022
referring to the genitalia of trans-masculine people (note that its solely up to the individual's preference) the idea being that it's a distinctly masculine alternative to 'pussy'
He/They tomcat got me acting strange
tomcat by bateman_305 June 9, 2022
A bisexual woman that performs androgyny, femininity and masculinity.

The bisexual equivalent of a futch lesbian.
"Amaya is a tomcat through and through, sometimes rocking a snazzy suit one day, and a gorgeous dress and heels the next."
Tomcat by Dorothy Scotts April 9, 2026