A pick-me girl is a girl who seeks male validation by indirectly or directly insinuating that she is “not like the other girls.” Basically a female version of a simp. Characteristics of a pick-me girl: lets men walk all over her because of her “CaReFrEE” demeanor, only hangs out with men because they’re “unproblematic”, exerts qualities/characteristics of her male counterparts that were not initially present to be more likable and relatable to them, etc.
Ex. 1:
Pick-me girl to her ONE girl acquaintance: “Yeah, I just have sOoo many guy friends because they’re so chill and not catty like literally every girl is lol!!”
Ex. 2:
Pick me girl: *Just starts skating because she sees all the cute skater boys on TikTok doing it*
*May or may not post all over social media her one good run boarding/holding her board like she didn’t just start skating yesterday*
Pick-me girl to her ONE girl acquaintance: “Yeah, I just have sOoo many guy friends because they’re so chill and not catty like literally every girl is lol!!”
Ex. 2:
Pick me girl: *Just starts skating because she sees all the cute skater boys on TikTok doing it*
*May or may not post all over social media her one good run boarding/holding her board like she didn’t just start skating yesterday*
by Qtpie45 June 14, 2020
Get the Pick-me girl mug.The meaning of a “Pick-me girl” is a person who tries to be ‘different’ to impress men, Pick-me girls will constantly seek attention from males. Beware of them..
by I like dinosaurs 🦖 March 4, 2022
Get the Pick-me girl mug.A pick me girl is a girl who typically hangs out with guys purely because she craves validation from them (often due to daddy issues) she will purposely change her behaviour when around a group of boys and most likely point out your insecurities or secrets you told her personally and make fun of you in-front of them. They will brag about how they are “natural” and how they do things “girls wouldn’t normally do” like claim to skate or play sports. (they most likely suck) they also continuously speak aloud about how “hanging out with guys is easier because its less drama” when in actual fact girls don’t claim her because of how fucking annoying she is and she has lost all of her friends due to the pick me girl exposing them in-front of stupid ass boys. You probably know one in real life. Drop them immediately if they do. This also come from internalised misogyny. Some appear on tik tik, disagreeing with feminist and bashing other women just for them to get some buzz from boys telling her in the comments “we found a good on boys” “woah a funny woman for once” either way stay away from these girls they’re fucking annoying and will literally add to each and every insecurity you have keep your head up queen.
*being nice to your face* *group of boys who probably don't even like her that much come over”
“hiiii guyysss! omg no yeah we were just talking about how *insert name* needs to fix her makeup! yeah like I wouldn’t know because I dont wear ANY makeup like i’m so natural and I’m too busy gaming to wear makeup ahahah!”
Josh : “*under breath* I bet shes not even that good”
Pick me Girl: *touches arm*
“omg josshhh stoppp ahahah stopp no literally like I love minecraft yeah like I found diamonds yesterday like omg like yeah are you proud? *fake laugh* ahaha yeah”
Pick me girl to ‘friend’: I swear like you wear loads of makeup right? omg YEAH its to cover up your ACNE right? yeah my skin is so clear because i clearly dont wear makeup so I DONT have that problem but like yeah you kinda need makeup...i can still kind of see it... *looks to boys for approval”
“hiiii guyysss! omg no yeah we were just talking about how *insert name* needs to fix her makeup! yeah like I wouldn’t know because I dont wear ANY makeup like i’m so natural and I’m too busy gaming to wear makeup ahahah!”
Josh : “*under breath* I bet shes not even that good”
Pick me Girl: *touches arm*
“omg josshhh stoppp ahahah stopp no literally like I love minecraft yeah like I found diamonds yesterday like omg like yeah are you proud? *fake laugh* ahaha yeah”
Pick me girl to ‘friend’: I swear like you wear loads of makeup right? omg YEAH its to cover up your ACNE right? yeah my skin is so clear because i clearly dont wear makeup so I DONT have that problem but like yeah you kinda need makeup...i can still kind of see it... *looks to boys for approval”
by dracularua August 10, 2020
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Yes, I am mad.
Yes, I am mad.
Pick me girl (infront of guy): She is wearing too much makeup, I, on the other hand, am all natural!
by alicialikeschicken42 February 10, 2021
Get the Pick me girl mug.Pick-Me-Girl. Basically the female version of a simp. Girls who don’t get offended by blatantly sexist things because they crave male attention and validation. Same girls who say they only hang out with guys because they are “less drama”. They’re okay with putting down women for their personal gain and do everything they can to cater to males. I shorten it to PMG personally.
Oh my gosh, she replied to my tweet about how men suck that, “not all men”, what a “pick-me” girl (pmg).
by kathycopp April 15, 2020
Get the “Pick-Me” Girl mug.all the definitions are usually about a girl in a guy group, or a tom boy or a not like other girls girl. But that's a thing on its own.
a pick me girl is really just a girl that puts down other women (without valid reason) in order to look good in front of a guy.
it's not just male validation, it's putting other girls down in order to do so, hence "pick me!"
a pick me girl is really just a girl that puts down other women (without valid reason) in order to look good in front of a guy.
it's not just male validation, it's putting other girls down in order to do so, hence "pick me!"
pick-me girl: "maybe you should stop opening your legs in front of everyone and people will actually like you"
jason: :/ not cool.
ryan: omg lol fr Viv you should stop being such a thot.
Viv (another girl): ...ok?
jason: :/ not cool.
ryan: omg lol fr Viv you should stop being such a thot.
Viv (another girl): ...ok?
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Jason: “Kates such a pick me girl”
Jason: “Kates such a pick me girl”
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