A lesbian who uses they/them pronouns. While used more commonly for people who are non-binary, is not exclusive to people who are non-binary.
Simon is a they/them lesbian, or a Theysbian. They are non-binary and also attracted to women. They are NOT a women and they are NOT any less of a lesbian for not identifying as one.
by GollDuts October 13, 2020
A they/them lesbian is a woman, female-aligned person, or maybe even non-aligned person who identifies as a lesbian and uses they/them pronouns. They could use they/them pronouns because they're nonbinary, or for another reason such as disconnection from womanhood. They are completely valid, and have been from the start.
by sarah_a_c October 14, 2020
A lesbian (Woman or fem aligned nonbinary person) who uses they/them pronouns. Pronouns don't always necessarily mean gender.
Person 1: Jessie is a theysbian.
Person 2: What is that?
Person 1: They are a lesbian who uses they/them pronouns and you should respect their identity.
Person 2: What is that?
Person 1: They are a lesbian who uses they/them pronouns and you should respect their identity.
by sapphic6000 September 26, 2020
a label for lesbians who use they/them pronouns,what is a they/them lesbian?
a they/them lesbian is a woman or a female-aligned person (or even non-aligned!)
why do they use these pronouns?
there might be two different reasons:
they're a non-binary person.
OR
they feel disconnected from their womanhood.
both of these reasons are extremely valid since lesbians (like every label/sexuality) includes nonbinary people, there are even they/them lesbians in history and those who only write it off as lesbianphobic probably have not educated themselves properly
a they/them lesbian is a woman or a female-aligned person (or even non-aligned!)
why do they use these pronouns?
there might be two different reasons:
they're a non-binary person.
OR
they feel disconnected from their womanhood.
both of these reasons are extremely valid since lesbians (like every label/sexuality) includes nonbinary people, there are even they/them lesbians in history and those who only write it off as lesbianphobic probably have not educated themselves properly
person A : wow did you know ella is a theysbian
person B : really? thats so cool i wish them the best with their identity and label
person B : really? thats so cool i wish them the best with their identity and label
by h0nyun October 13, 2020
A theysbian is a woman, female aligned person, or non-aligned person, who uses they/them pronouns and identities as a lesbian. pronouns do not always equal gender (of course saying it doesn't at all is wrong).
"My friend, they are a theysbian. They're pretty swag."
by thiccboysoldier October 14, 2020
A lesbian woman who uses they/them pronouns. It is important to note that although they use they/them pronouns, they identify as women.
by DOCTORSAWMILL October 13, 2020
by theysbianenthusiast October 14, 2020