A lesbian who uses they/them pronouns. While used more commonly for people who are non-binary, is not exclusive to people who are non-binary.
Simon is a they/them lesbian, or a Theysbian. They are non-binary and also attracted to women. They are NOT a women and they are NOT any less of a lesbian for not identifying as one.
by GollDuts October 13, 2020
Get the Theysbian mug.A they/them lesbian is a woman, female-aligned person, or maybe even non-aligned person who identifies as a lesbian and uses they/them pronouns. They could use they/them pronouns because they're nonbinary, or for another reason such as disconnection from womanhood. They are completely valid, and have been from the start.
by sarah_a_c October 13, 2020
Get the Theysbian mug.A lesbian (Woman or fem aligned nonbinary person) who uses they/them pronouns. Pronouns don't always necessarily mean gender.
Person 1: Jessie is a theysbian.
Person 2: What is that?
Person 1: They are a lesbian who uses they/them pronouns and you should respect their identity.
Person 2: What is that?
Person 1: They are a lesbian who uses they/them pronouns and you should respect their identity.
by sapphic6000 September 26, 2020
Get the Theysbian mug.a label for lesbians who use they/them pronouns,what is a they/them lesbian?
a they/them lesbian is a woman or a female-aligned person (or even non-aligned!)
why do they use these pronouns?
there might be two different reasons:
they're a non-binary person.
OR
they feel disconnected from their womanhood.
both of these reasons are extremely valid since lesbians (like every label/sexuality) includes nonbinary people, there are even they/them lesbians in history and those who only write it off as lesbianphobic probably have not educated themselves properly
a they/them lesbian is a woman or a female-aligned person (or even non-aligned!)
why do they use these pronouns?
there might be two different reasons:
they're a non-binary person.
OR
they feel disconnected from their womanhood.
both of these reasons are extremely valid since lesbians (like every label/sexuality) includes nonbinary people, there are even they/them lesbians in history and those who only write it off as lesbianphobic probably have not educated themselves properly
person A : wow did you know ella is a theysbian
person B : really? thats so cool i wish them the best with their identity and label
person B : really? thats so cool i wish them the best with their identity and label
by h0nyun October 13, 2020
Get the theysbian mug.A theysbian is a woman, female aligned person, or non-aligned person, who uses they/them pronouns and identities as a lesbian. pronouns do not always equal gender (of course saying it doesn't at all is wrong).
"My friend, they are a theysbian. They're pretty swag."
by thiccboysoldier October 13, 2020
Get the theysbian mug.A lesbian woman who uses they/them pronouns. It is important to note that although they use they/them pronouns, they identify as women.
by DOCTORSAWMILL October 13, 2020
Get the theysbian mug.“you know my girlfriend veronica? they use they them pronouns now!”
“oh? does that mean you two aren’t a lesbian couple anymore?”
“no we’re still lesbians, they just identify as a theysbian”
“oh? does that mean you two aren’t a lesbian couple anymore?”
“no we’re still lesbians, they just identify as a theysbian”
by doyoufart October 13, 2020
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