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A lesbian who uses they/them pronouns. While used more commonly for people who are non-binary, is not exclusive to people who are non-binary.
Simon is a they/them lesbian, or a Theysbian. They are non-binary and also attracted to women. They are NOT a women and they are NOT any less of a lesbian for not identifying as one.
by GollDuts October 13, 2020
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Xenogender isn't defined in relation to "female" or "male" (the binary genders), but by other kinds of ideas that most people don't think of as having to do with gender. Typically oneself chooses things they like to more accuratly decribe themselves better then they think binary labels could do.
Person 1: "I use the xenogender catgender! I use nya/nyaself because they are fun and make me feel comfortable!"

Person 2: "That's cool! I use puppygender because I have a complex identity regarding gender, I know I'm not a dog btw!"
by GollDuts October 15, 2020
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