To be taken advantage of without realizing due to extreme kindness, to the point where when questioned, people are offended that one would even suggest such a thing. Word derived from "Ned Flanders" of the Simpsons who is "taken advantage of" by Homer Simpson due to his extreme kindness and love for fellow man.
To "borrow" something without the intent on giving it back any time soon. Then lying about the whereabouts of the "borrowed" item when questioned. "I lent him that video ages ago and now he's denying it. I've been flandered"
by Ten Bears April 27, 2012
by katy4662 May 02, 2008
by summit12 April 01, 2005
by D. Heaton November 02, 2007
verb. to flander.
To have such a friendly, (Ned Flanders-like) attitude, that it allows people to take advantage of it and walk all over you.
To have such a friendly, (Ned Flanders-like) attitude, that it allows people to take advantage of it and walk all over you.
"My brother is too generous for his own good. If he keeps flandering around like this, he'll wind up getting fucked over by an scam artist!"
"You need to stick up for yourself, boy! No son of mine will let people flander him!"
"You need to stick up for yourself, boy! No son of mine will let people flander him!"
by dmueller_art January 01, 2010
To talk like Ned Flanders
by Maudey April 17, 2006