To be taken advantage of without realizing due to extreme kindness, to the point where when questioned, people are offended that one would even suggest such a thing. Word derived from "Ned Flanders" of the Simpsons who is "taken advantage of" by Homer Simpson due to his extreme kindness and love for fellow man.
To "borrow" something without the intent on giving it back any time soon. Then lying about the whereabouts of the "borrowed" item when questioned. "I lent him that video ages ago and now he's denying it. I've been flandered"
by Ten Bears September 30, 2012
Get the Flanderedmug. by katy4662 May 2, 2008
Get the flandersmug. by summit12 March 31, 2005
Get the flandermug. by D. Heaton November 29, 2007
Get the flandersmug. verb. to flander.
To have such a friendly, (Ned Flanders-like) attitude, that it allows people to take advantage of it and walk all over you.
To have such a friendly, (Ned Flanders-like) attitude, that it allows people to take advantage of it and walk all over you.
"My brother is too generous for his own good. If he keeps flandering around like this, he'll wind up getting fucked over by an scam artist!"
"You need to stick up for yourself, boy! No son of mine will let people flander him!"
"You need to stick up for yourself, boy! No son of mine will let people flander him!"
by dmueller_art December 31, 2009
Get the Flanderingmug. 
by Maudey April 30, 2006
Get the flanderizemug.