Tom violently attacks gays because he is a bad person and also a homophobe. Jerry is disgusted by gays, but he doesn't treat them badly, because he is a good person, so that makes him a good homophobe. A person who is disgusted by gays is not automatically a bad person, but a person who automatically attacks and "cancels" everyone whose thoughts and beliefs they disagree with, that is a tyrant and a bad person.
Nobody has time for people with bad energy! People with good vibes are always welcomed good energy, positive thinking, good aurora and energy are always welcomed. But if you're energy or aurora is not positive, nobody wants to be bothered. No Debbie downers , Sad Shirley's, negative Nancy's, We would rather you leave and take all your negativity with you.
I painted signs for the bingo hall, the local bar, and at my desk that say GOOD VIBES OR GOODBYE, so everyone knows not to come in with a bad attitude!