A female between the age of 13-27 that has a relationship with one or many gay men. A fruit fly has the capability of having relationships with heterosexual men, and doesn't have to have a gay man by her side 24-7.
"Were you going to tell me that you were gay before or after you found out I'm a fruit fly?"
by Concha January 8, 2004
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A woman who is (unwittingly) attracted to gay men (especially closeted ones).
Cera: I can't believe he's gay! We dated for a month!
Suzy: I'm so sorry honey.
Cera: This is the fourth time this has happened!
Suzy: Well, you have to admit, you're a bit of a fruit fly.
by jehseh December 27, 2010
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A woman who leads her gays. A fag hag is a woman who follows her gays. A clear example can be found at www.fruitflylife.com
"I feel awkward using a woman's restroom at this gay bar. Only a fag hag would need the privacy. A fruit fly does not mind pissing in front of horny naked gay men."
by courtney nichols September 21, 2008
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a straight person who hangs out with hella Lgbt people
“Katie is always chilling with the gay kids, is she a lesbian?”

“Nah she just a fruit fly her and John have been dating for weeks
by Oliver Smith July 23, 2019
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A person of either gender who hangs out with homosexuals due to the fact that they are gay and seldomly for any other reason. This differs from fag hag as a hag and her fag have a true friendship.
The fag and his hag desperatly attempted to ditch the fruit flies at the club.
by c is for clam hat January 7, 2005
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true definition is an annoying woman who hangs around gay men solely because they are gay and therefore her fashion accessory

all of the other definitions here are simply fag hags - the crux of a fruit fly is they are annoying and will not leave you alone
ever since QAF we can't go anywhere without attracting that fruit fly
by batboynl September 1, 2009
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