When a women is dating a controlling douche bag and he literally has to give her permission to do anything. Such as talk to her own mother, listen to music, wear certain clothing, answering her phone, etc.
Big Guy Wes is a nickname referring to Westin. It is a lifestyle full of acid and cannabis. It can also be used as a term to describe a person's random and sometimes ecstatic behavior.
"Do you see Big Guy Wes over their" saidMary "Yeah he's totally trippin" said Lucy