A phrase used by Phil Lester while he made his potato stamp on his last DanAndPhilCrafts video. This phrase will now be the death of the internet and all YouTube comment sections.
Phil: press it on to the paper
Dan: Phil! To hard. You hurt it!
Phil: Be Soft and Neat, Soft and Neat, Soft and Neat!
A Soft Daddy/mommy is a dom in the cgl community that isn't hyper dominant, and doesn't tend to be stern or rough with their little. Soft Daddy's dont tend to punish their little's physically with spankings but instead they may just give their sub a time out or temporarily take away their stuffies.
man, my daddy is just the best. He colors with me and buys me sooooo many stuffies. But he just wont punish me...... Maybe he's a Soft Daddy.