What a girl says when she's not interested in a relationship with you, but just wants to be
friends with you. That is literally it. She does not owe you a relationship, or sex, or anything for you being nice to her. You can't bitch and moan about her "going for the douchebags" or going for guys who
will "treat her like shit" because that's just you refusing to believe that any woman /dare/ not be interested in you, so you make yourself believe that it must be something wrong with her.
Sorry, but she's just not interested. Either you move on while being
friends, or you stop being
friends. You can't turn a yes into a no, no matter how much of a "gentleman" you are.
1: Hey, we seem to enjoy being around each other and share some of the same interests. Would you like to go out some time?
2: No thanks, let's just be
friends.
1: I
respect your decision and will not bitch and moan about how all
girls are sluts who only go for guys who treat them like shit, because I can take a rejection without letting it bother me.
2: Wow, you're a normal human being!