A person with a Perpetrator Mentality has the mindset that it isn't "an issue" if they cause harm to other people. They believe "the issue" is the natural reaction to the harm they cause, such as that of the victim, or anyone who calls them out.
Many perpetrators refuse to be accountable for their actions, so they create distractions. Perpetrators have made "victim" a dirty word. A victim is simply a person who was harmed, and they don't "choose" whether or not they are harmed. The perp does that.
Those with a Perpetrator Mentality encourage shame and blame towards their victims, and toward anyone who reports them to authorities (The Rat). These perps won't admit that they have poor communication skills. They believe they can gain power by controling other people, when true power lies in the ability to control their own self.
Many perpetrators refuse to be accountable for their actions, so they create distractions. Perpetrators have made "victim" a dirty word. A victim is simply a person who was harmed, and they don't "choose" whether or not they are harmed. The perp does that.
Those with a Perpetrator Mentality encourage shame and blame towards their victims, and toward anyone who reports them to authorities (The Rat). These perps won't admit that they have poor communication skills. They believe they can gain power by controling other people, when true power lies in the ability to control their own self.
"Gary says it isn't his fault or his problem that I'm depressed and lost my confidence, when he starved me of physical and emotional affection, while secretly bedding 3 of my friends. Gary has Perpetrator Mentality."
A) "My roommate blames me because someone at his party stole my tip money. He said only an idiot hides cash in their bedroom closet."
B) " Your roommate has perpetrator mentality. His friends should not have been allowed in your bedroom, especially with you at work."
A) "My roommate blames me because someone at his party stole my tip money. He said only an idiot hides cash in their bedroom closet."
B) " Your roommate has perpetrator mentality. His friends should not have been allowed in your bedroom, especially with you at work."
by PurpleTantrum October 27, 2023
Get the Perpetrator Mentalitymug. Not together enough to care about the finer things of life because you're too preoccupied with keeping yourself calm
Hey Susan, I wish I could make my mental ends meet so I could care about matching my clothes or keeping my room clean. All my energy is spent keeping myself calm and not depressed,
by Jonfurstn January 15, 2015
Get the mental ends meetmug. 
To be present in the mind of another without physically being there, by way of previous interaction or discourse.
A disruptive memory, either positive or negative, which affect one's immediate ability to think or make decisions based on previous exposure to written language, spoken a language, and body language (including multi-media).
A disruptive memory, either positive or negative, which affect one's immediate ability to think or make decisions based on previous exposure to written language, spoken a language, and body language (including multi-media).
"Before i walked down the isle at my wedding, the mental presence of my grandmother told me to "lift up my skirt before I trip."
"She retained a mental presence of her husband's fist, even though he was not around physically anymore."
"Although I want to achieve higher grades, the mental presence of a bully prevents me from reaching my goals."
"The news offers an ongoing mental presence of fear amongst our community, and this allows them the ability to manipulate and control."
"The law creates a rhythmic mental presence which makes me feel uncomfortable in my own home."
"She retained a mental presence of her husband's fist, even though he was not around physically anymore."
"Although I want to achieve higher grades, the mental presence of a bully prevents me from reaching my goals."
"The news offers an ongoing mental presence of fear amongst our community, and this allows them the ability to manipulate and control."
"The law creates a rhythmic mental presence which makes me feel uncomfortable in my own home."
by Mr H20 August 20, 2022
Get the mental presencemug. obsessively talking to your ex
by sarina's owner (christian) August 14, 2024
Get the mentally illmug. Junaid khan aka Mental aka MNTL, son of professional necrophiliac A.K (Spex) of Beeston, Leeds. MNTL known for his mentalness and known for being a light weight on Smirnoff. Mental spent his life growing up around his best mates arron and akeel.
by Formalefficient June 5, 2018
Get the Junaid Khan (aka Mental, MNTL)mug. 