by duivvv May 10, 2021
Get the social honeypotmug. Any individual who rarely or never initiates social interaction on their own initiative, but instead attaches themselves to more social people when they run into them and hangs out with their friends.
This phenomenon is often most common in schools and small towns, especially in teenagers and young adults; particularly if they've either recently switched schools or moved to a small town.
This can often act as a behavioral crutch, in which the Social Remora in question satisfies their social needs without learning how to fulfill them on their own, stagnating their social development. This resulting social stagnation often manifests itself as difficulties in dating relationships, as the Social Remora lacks the social experience to feel comfortable interacting with another person on their own initiative.
Remedies for Social Remoras:
The best way to stop being a Social Remora is to start hanging out with people by your own initiative. Get your friends' phone numbers and ask them to hang out sometime; see a movie, play board games, hang out at a park, share your favorite tv shows/movies, even study for school. Not only will this give you a social life, but it will provide you with basic interpersonal skills, making you more comfortable hanging out with other people in a one-on-one basis, and less awkward when you try to date people; an activity for which interpersonal skill are usually a mandatory prerequisite by nature.
This phenomenon is often most common in schools and small towns, especially in teenagers and young adults; particularly if they've either recently switched schools or moved to a small town.
This can often act as a behavioral crutch, in which the Social Remora in question satisfies their social needs without learning how to fulfill them on their own, stagnating their social development. This resulting social stagnation often manifests itself as difficulties in dating relationships, as the Social Remora lacks the social experience to feel comfortable interacting with another person on their own initiative.
Remedies for Social Remoras:
The best way to stop being a Social Remora is to start hanging out with people by your own initiative. Get your friends' phone numbers and ask them to hang out sometime; see a movie, play board games, hang out at a park, share your favorite tv shows/movies, even study for school. Not only will this give you a social life, but it will provide you with basic interpersonal skills, making you more comfortable hanging out with other people in a one-on-one basis, and less awkward when you try to date people; an activity for which interpersonal skill are usually a mandatory prerequisite by nature.
Example 1:
Jane: "That Billy kid's pretty funny, but he's really not as social as I thought he was. He's always up for hanging out when someone asks him, and always shows up to parties and such when invited, but he never calls anyone to hang out on his own."
Mary: "I've noticed that too; he is kind of a Social Remora, isn't he?"
Example 2:
Billy: "Arg! I really like Jane, but we only ever hang out between classes at school, and when I run into her at parties, she's usually with her friends whom I don't know. I want to ask her out, but since I don't hang out with people on my own initiative often, I'm worried that even if she said yes, I'd be really awkward and off-putting on a date. Why do I have to be such a Social Remora?"
Jane: "That Billy kid's pretty funny, but he's really not as social as I thought he was. He's always up for hanging out when someone asks him, and always shows up to parties and such when invited, but he never calls anyone to hang out on his own."
Mary: "I've noticed that too; he is kind of a Social Remora, isn't he?"
Example 2:
Billy: "Arg! I really like Jane, but we only ever hang out between classes at school, and when I run into her at parties, she's usually with her friends whom I don't know. I want to ask her out, but since I don't hang out with people on my own initiative often, I'm worried that even if she said yes, I'd be really awkward and off-putting on a date. Why do I have to be such a Social Remora?"
by Logan_Felipe June 21, 2012
Get the Social Remoramug. The act of talking/socializing to many people. Usually done by a Sally Social-Pants or someone who talks to people they know constantly.
by Nick Jensen February 15, 2008
Get the social-pantsingmug. A person addicted to social networks that has extreme difficulty to perform simple tasks such as talking to her/his partner, personal hygene, get grocery, eating, watching TV and sleeping.
by hermes2364 February 12, 2010
Get the socially distractedmug. A term to describe a person, mostly an extravert, who bonds together a group of people. This person is friends with everyone in the group individually, and without them the group falls apart.
Maybe the group has another thing in common (e.g. a hobby), but if it wasn't for this person they wouldn't be friends. The social glue of a group proposes activities to do, is the king/queen of the group chat, and everything the group does is awkward until the social glue arrives.
Maybe the group has another thing in common (e.g. a hobby), but if it wasn't for this person they wouldn't be friends. The social glue of a group proposes activities to do, is the king/queen of the group chat, and everything the group does is awkward until the social glue arrives.
Cindy is such a social glue, if it weren't for her these friends would have never met up.
I'm shy, but thankfully my social glue friend has introduced me to some new people.
I'm shy, but thankfully my social glue friend has introduced me to some new people.
by milky_way October 30, 2018
Get the social gluemug. 1. An introverts dream.
2. Staying six feet apart so you don't catch airborne diseases such as COVID-19.
2. Staying six feet apart so you don't catch airborne diseases such as COVID-19.
The mayor Pronounced on the town speaker, "We will start social distancing as of tommorow. This means that we need to stay several feet apart to not catch the pandemic, COVID-19
by anonymous October 13, 2020
Get the Social Distancingmug. deactivating all your social networking accounts like facebook, google talk, whatsapp after breaking up with girlfriend/boyfriend because of old memories
dude: cant find you on facebook even whatsapp you so many times?
you: after bitch holocaust I followed path of social annihilation, OM.
you: after bitch holocaust I followed path of social annihilation, OM.
by beingshreyans August 18, 2013
Get the social annihilationmug.