If your real family isn't present, a tribe is kind of
like family. If you'
ve had family present for everything great you've
done, everything great that happened to you in life, then they're not there, it's an adjustment, it's
new territory. You're the same person with a part of you that was there
gone, a piece of the puzzle missing. Not everything is about putting together a puzzle, everything happens for a reason. Sometimes two trains start going different directions and it's hard to tell which direction you're going, it's not a negative feeling.