Unlucky chance. Likeserendipity but the action of finding something out completly by unlucky chance.
I tripped over walking in to the front room and broke my wrist, but when I was lying on the floor in agony I found my car keys under the sofa! That's serendopity.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.