You won’t meet many deikes in your life because it’s a very rare name. She has strong German roots and is therefore very hard drinking. She’s a nice, smart friend with whom you can have a lot of fun.
But she also has to struggle with her own problems. She just doesn’t want to tell others about her problems. So ask her how she’s doing.
to “Theo Decker” is to be in deep denial about your gayness. This is often when somebody suffers with deep rooted internalized homophobia and compulsory heterosexuality. A “Theo Decker” might even be in love with somebody of the same sex without admitting it to themselves.