The fallacy of assuming that pointing out an inconsistency in someone's position is automatically a devastating refutation, when in fact inconsistency may be superficial, irrelevant, or even appropriate in complex domains. Human beings are inconsistent; complex realities contain contradictions; different contexts require different principles. The fallacy lies in treating inconsistency as automatically fatal, ignoring that consistency is just one virtue among many—and sometimes overrated.
"You believe in both individual freedom and social responsibility—that's inconsistent! Gotcha!" That's Inconsistency Fallacy Fallacy. Life is inconsistent. Complex positions contain tensions. Pointing out inconsistency isn't the same as showing error—sometimes it just shows complexity."
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.