A sexpat is anyone who moves to another country for the main reason of obtaining easier sex (which includes both copulating with pros and civilians).
Due to the increases in connectivity, modern sexpats often work from their laptops and can be seen sexpatting in several countries at once (or playgrounds, as they call it), by taking advantage of tourist visas.
This is the only true and authentic
definition of a sexpat. However, younger sexpats in the 20-40yo demographics usually vehemently deny being sexpats and will instead find a whole bunch of elegant excuses to cover up their sexpatery and preserve their ego.
They will argue for instance that sexpats are only the older dudes paying pros, and that "gaming" civilians (= pumping and dumping young girls by taking advantage of the cultural and economic differential) puts them in a whole different category altogether.
This is due to huge ego and self-image issues. Younger sexpats therefore use countless
euphemisms such as "pick up artists" and "lifestyle travelers", instead of sexpats. They will also always deny, even at gunpoint, that their sexpatery has anything to do with them not being able to copulate back home.
Once past 40 years old, reality usually sets in and sexpats lose the emotional need to see themselves as an "
international playboy" and stop seeing
copulation with random women as a way to validate themselves. Their P4P consumption increases, as convenience takes
preponderance over ego issues.
- Matt Fecal: RooshVForum is a prime sexpat forum.
- Phil Pedeau: Yeah, but they will ban anyone who mentions P4P though. They have huge personal
self-esteem issues and
recognition needs to fulfill.
- Mat Fecal: They are so
desperate for sex that they will travel to the Krasnodar Krai to find it, yet will deny being sex tourists.
