Blowtender 

An in the closet guy who gets a job as a bartender so he can meet guys to blow.

Trent wasn't paying the bills or meeting any guys, so he got a job as a blowtender at this bar in the gay part of town.

Blowtender by dj dee jay dj September 11, 2012

Brotender 

A brotender is a bartender who is also a close friend. A brotender looks after his friends like he looks after his bar. Making sure they don't drink too much or hit on married women with angry jealous husbands. If need be the brotender will give you a ride home.

Dude, Brian, I'm so glad I have you as my brotender. Without you that Marine would have kicked my ass if I had hit on his wife.

Brotender by Yomin Kitkat April 11, 2009

Bongtender 

A person in which is operator in the act of smoking.

,"Dude, are you going to be bongtender to that Gravity Bong?"

Bongtender by High-chi-chi-chi September 4, 2011

brotender 

Someone who pretends be a bro, even though he really isn't.

Sam, stop being such a brotender, you're not a true bro.

brotender by money719 June 27, 2010