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The realization that there aren't any main characters in the world and everyone has a complex life, thoughts, crushes, relatives, dreams and mind just as your own.

Essentially whilst you're the main character in your life, you're also a background character in someone else's.
The knowledge that both I and you reading this are actual people like the remaining 8 billion of us is making sonder hit me like a truck.
sonder by B O I B O I March 6, 2022
Related Words

Soncerrai 

A very large person usually over 500 pounds. Some might call them a “fatass” or “huge”. Tends to have over 1,000 chins and can be found in various food locations.
Grant: What is a Soncerrai?
Mike: Oh grant, just some fat pig who we call S for short.
Soncerrai by Eugene spicer July 1, 2021

bangtan sonyeondan 

Bangtan Sonyeondan, knows as BTS or Bulletproof Boys Scout is a South Korean kpop group under Big Hit Entertainment. They debuted on 13 June 2013. They are known for the music they made and energizing dances. BTS consists of Rap Monster (leader, rapper), Jin (eldest, vocal, visual), Suga (rapper), J-Hope (main dancer, rapper), Jimin (main dancer, vocal), V (vocal) and Jungkook (youngest, main vocal, dancer). Their fanbase is called A.R.M.Y (Adorable Representative Mc of Youth).
Example
Girl 1 : OMG! Isn't that Bangtan Sonyeondan?!
Girl 2 : OMG ! YASSSS

(방탄소년단 ; Bangtan Sonyeondan)
Bangtan Sonyeondan / BTS is a noun.
bangtan sonyeondan by Minty Sugar January 25, 2016

annyeonghaseyo jeoneun bangtan sonyeondan hwanggeum maknae jeon jungkook imnida 

"annyeonghaseyo jeoneun bangtan sonyeondan hwanggeum maknae jeon jungkook imnida" Kook chanted
One who has a fart fetish and/or loves BBW fart porn
Johnny: Did you hear about Reese?
Greg: Yep, that guy is a total Sonker!
Sonker by 69Lunchbox69 July 3, 2020
Sonder is the realization that everybody around you, even strangers, are living a life just as complex as yours. Sometimes your hurting so bad and you feel your the only one. But after all your hardships you start to realize that everybody is so unique and you aren't the only one. Everybody lives are so indescribably different and there is no way you will ever understand their lives. To sum it up you are realizing that your not the only one living with such chaos and complexity. All people lives are unique, strange, chaotic, and complex, just like yours. Your not alone.
I lay in bed so deep in my thoughts, the darkness was all around me while, slowly, the sonder started to kick in. I then realized that not only me, but all seven point fifty three billion people in this world which they are constantly living despite my personal lack of awareness of it.
sonder by _i_found_it_mom_ July 29, 2019