Gay-Stared.
If a straight man is being 'eyed up' by a gay man, he is being 'Gared at'.
If the partner of
said straight man is being stared at by
said gay (in a "how dare you be with him"
way), she is being 'Gared down'.
Oh my God, can we go somewhere else, I
keep being 'Gared at'.
If he tries to gare me down once more, I'm going to
go over there and
steal his Les Mis CD.