To defuggle is to have a femaleflop in a similar fashion to a dead fish, directly on top of you, to lay (when energy levels are low), on your chest, tummy to tummy- at this point the male will cuddle, or snuggle, her all evening.
We started off with a tuggle but she was very tired and soon we just ended up having a defuggle! much better than a standardcuddle
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.