To probe your partner with a stick or something similar, and shove it so far up their rectum that they begin to bleed and their eyeballs pop out of their skulls. CAUTION: Your arm may require cleansing afterwards.
The reason men are alienated is because you're alienating them, actively. And that's a byproduct of political, tribal dogmatism.
Hym "So no, I don't need or want to do your faggot men's retreat. I'm not going to do your incest cult. Your progressivism is directly responsible for men being alienated and you serve no purpose other than to drive people into the incest cult."