29 definitions by thisvexesme
An umbrella term for many “beliefs” regarding gender, the main one being that sex and gender are two separate concepts that don’t always align. The term is typically only used pejoratively by those who are critical of trans people/issues and is thought of as a cult by some of the more reactionary types.
Radfem Roxy does not support trans people as she thinks their identity is a manifestation of gender ideology which she considers misogynistic and dangerous.
by thisvexesme August 2, 2023
A subtype of neopronoun wherein emojis are used in the place of a typical pronoun. An example of emojiself pronouns would be 🐝/🐝self or 🌷/🌷self. These types of pronouns are typically only expected to be used online.
Person 1: One of my pronoun sets is 🌕/🌕self.
Person 2: How do you say that IRL?
Person 1: You don't, my emojiself pronouns are only used online!
Person 2: How do you say that IRL?
Person 1: You don't, my emojiself pronouns are only used online!
by thisvexesme August 1, 2023
A trans-exclusionary form of homosexuality that refers to cisgender men who are only attracted to cisgender men. It is a troll orientation inspired by super straight and is not a valid orientation.
Person 1: I'm Super Gay so I will only date biological men!
Person 2: You know, you can just have a preference without making it your whole sexuality, right?
Person 2: You know, you can just have a preference without making it your whole sexuality, right?
by thisvexesme August 3, 2023
The irrational fear, disgust, and/or hatred of trans men and transmasculine people. This form of bigotry occurs at the intersection of maleness/masculinity and transness and is specific to the experiences of trans men and transmasculine people.
The term is thought to be controversial as there are those who believe it is not a real form of discrimination and that it undermines trans women and transfeminine people and their fight against transmisogyny. It is also called transmisandry, though this term is considered outdated.
The term is thought to be controversial as there are those who believe it is not a real form of discrimination and that it undermines trans women and transfeminine people and their fight against transmisogyny. It is also called transmisandry, though this term is considered outdated.
Person 1: Transandrophobia is not real! Trans men are men, therefore they are not oppressed!
Person 2: I understand your feelings, but the topic is a lot more complicated than that!
Person 2: I understand your feelings, but the topic is a lot more complicated than that!
by thisvexesme August 3, 2023
An individual who opposes the creation and/or consumption of “problematic” ship content (and fiction in general) and anyone who would support said practice (i.e. proshippers); what constitutes being problematic varies widely from person to person
Person 1: Should I invite her to our Star Wars discord?
Person 2: I wouldn't. You ship Reylo and she's an anti.
Person 2: I wouldn't. You ship Reylo and she's an anti.
by thisvexesme July 29, 2023
An individual who identifies as a lesbian and, in some way, male or masculine. There are many reasons for a lesbian to identify this way, including: a) being butch/GNC; b) being transmasc; c) being AMAB but not a cis man; d) having a gender identity that is not exclusively binary woman, etc.
The term is thought to be controversial by some in the LGBTQ community as lesbian discourse on how exactly to define lesbian is ongoing, with some people adamant about not including any man-aligned or masculine person.
The term is thought to be controversial by some in the LGBTQ community as lesbian discourse on how exactly to define lesbian is ongoing, with some people adamant about not including any man-aligned or masculine person.
Frankie is a stereotypically masculine-presenting lesbian, and identifies with the terms butch, dyke, and lesboy.
by thisvexesme August 2, 2023
Often abbreviated to SAM, the Split Attraction Model is a means of further defining and specifying one’s overall orientation by splitting their attraction into two types, typically sexual and romantic (though other forms of attraction do exist), and assigning a distinct orientation to each one, if applicable.
Typically, one's attraction types align, so, for example, a heterosexual person's romantic attraction would be assumed to be hetero as well. For some, this is not the case. These people are called varioriented and are often (but not always) part of the aro/ace spectrum. The SAM can be very useful for them to understand their identity.
Some examples of SAM orientations include:
1. asexual biromantic (no sexual attraction to any gender / romantic attraction to more than one gender)
2. heterosexual homoromantic (sexual attraction to the opposite binary gender / romantic attraction to the same gender)
3. pansexual aromantic (sexual attraction to any or all genders / no romantic attraction to any gender)
Typically, one's attraction types align, so, for example, a heterosexual person's romantic attraction would be assumed to be hetero as well. For some, this is not the case. These people are called varioriented and are often (but not always) part of the aro/ace spectrum. The SAM can be very useful for them to understand their identity.
Some examples of SAM orientations include:
1. asexual biromantic (no sexual attraction to any gender / romantic attraction to more than one gender)
2. heterosexual homoromantic (sexual attraction to the opposite binary gender / romantic attraction to the same gender)
3. pansexual aromantic (sexual attraction to any or all genders / no romantic attraction to any gender)
Sam is varioriented, meaning their sexual and romantic attractions do not align, so they use the Split Attraction Model to define their orientation. Sam is pansexual aromantic.
by thisvexesme August 30, 2023