alternabear's definitions

side

A gay man who enjoys foreplay, such as kissing, cuddling, manual stimulation, fellatio, and analingus, but not actual sex.

As with anything, discuss any risks and comfort levels with any potential partner(s) prior to having sex. Have real conversations. It’s okay to like what you like and not like what you don’t, as long as you don’t mislead anyone.

“Are you a top, a bottom, or vers?
“I’m more of a side.”

by alternabear June 17, 2018

pescy

Abbreviation for pescatarian, or limiting the eating of meat to fish or other seafood.

Pronounced like pesky.

John would love a cheeseburger, but he's trying out being pescy right now.

by alternabear May 20, 2016

spelunking

Performing analingus (i.e. give a rimjob)

I'm hoping to go spelunking tonight!

by alternabear June 8, 2015

hanging shirt

A shirt that by its design is intended to be hung on a hanger rather than folded or rolled and put in a drawer. Examples would be polos, button-ups and work shirts as opposed to t-shirts.

The laundry's dry! Could you please help me put away the hanging shirts?

by alternabear March 23, 2016