Some bullshit campaign from Canada going around the internet that somehow managed to brainwash thousands into the phony belief that using "retarded" is automatically bullying the mentally disabled no matter how it's used, even when the thing "retarded" was referring to didn't even have to do with them to begin with. Yet they still choose to ignore that logic and bring upon their twisted idea that it's still comparing the unpleasant thing "retarded" is referring to to the mentally disabled which makes absolutely no fucking sense. They even made a little PSA where some guy in an office uses "retarded" in the proper colloquial context on the phone, you know, WITHOUT talking about the mentally disabled (let alone bullying them), and all of a sudden everyone else there demonizes him as a goblin which hardly makes any difference. Presumably run by SJWs and white knights thinking they're doing the entire mentally disabled group a favor by unconditionally defending them 24/7 as if they even asked for it to begin with (and despite there actually being neurodivergents who don't care about that word at all unless it's actually being used as a slur, believe it or not)
The campaign is run by Special Olympics groups and while we don't have anything against them and genuinely respect all the athletes and their will to overcome their disabilities, the problem with their campaign is that they take the idea of using that word to bully those mentally disabled people TO AN UNNECESSARY EXTREME. And that's what most of the criticism tries to address, that it's not a slur per se unless it's actually being used as one to bully and demean the mentally disabled. Yet they don't listen to that either and continue to insist on their belief that their campaign is absolutely perfect and the #1 thing this world needs than anything else.
PS: Written by someone with autism.
"bruh that's so retarded"
"Uh, excuse me, that's an ableist slur, and you're bullying the mentally disabled with that behavior #nogoodway"
"but I wasn't even talking about them"
"Yes you were, you're comparing the thing you were referring to to the mentally disabled and implying that they're as inferior as they are"
"...Are you for real"
PS: Written by someone with autism.
"bruh that's so retarded"
"Uh, excuse me, that's an ableist slur, and you're bullying the mentally disabled with that behavior #nogoodway"
"but I wasn't even talking about them"
"Yes you were, you're comparing the thing you were referring to to the mentally disabled and implying that they're as inferior as they are"
"...Are you for real"
by Someone32143214 February 13, 2022

A: *Behaves like a normal person*
Everyone: THE BEHAVIOR MAKES US UNCOMFORTABLE!!!
A: *Banned permanently*
Everyone: THE BEHAVIOR MAKES US UNCOMFORTABLE!!!
A: *Banned permanently*
by Someone32143214 December 05, 2023

Synonym for delayed, generally used when referring to ignition times of car engines.
Also the #1 trigger word in social media for some reason, even though worse and more unambiguously derogatory words exist, such as nigger, and most people use it to just colloquially describe something bullshit, you know, WITHOUT making fun of the mentally disabled.
Also the #1 trigger word in social media for some reason, even though worse and more unambiguously derogatory words exist, such as nigger, and most people use it to just colloquially describe something bullshit, you know, WITHOUT making fun of the mentally disabled.
Facebook user 1: Have you heard about the mayor's decision to raise taxes for low-income families?
Facebook user 2: Yeah, ruining chances of those who hardly had any to start with? That's just retarded.
Autistic person:
Random Canadian girl: TRIGGERED
Facebook user 2: Yeah, ruining chances of those who hardly had any to start with? That's just retarded.
Autistic person:
Random Canadian girl: TRIGGERED
by Someone32143214 November 04, 2019

An insult commonly used among Americans when they display their own brand of humor, and receivers get uncomfortable and take it seriously because they're totally unfamiliar with their culture due to never having been to America, much less interacting with Americans.
To explain, Americans have a particularly very aggressive personality and sense of humor, so a thick skin is a strict prerequisite to hanging out with the likes of them. The reason why the insult tells you to go to Indonesia of all countries (can be substituted with any other country in Southeast Asia) is because by contrast, Indonesians are the softest thus the easiest to hang out with, but others will look down on you for it. Think of Spongebob trying to enter the Salty Spitoon only to get told to enter Weenie Hut Jr. instead to get a good idea.
If you dismiss someone upsetting you only to get called out for failing to understand Americans and their humor, don't get defensive, admit your mistake and start growing a thicker skin. Unless you want to be around Indonesians the rest of your life.
To explain, Americans have a particularly very aggressive personality and sense of humor, so a thick skin is a strict prerequisite to hanging out with the likes of them. The reason why the insult tells you to go to Indonesia of all countries (can be substituted with any other country in Southeast Asia) is because by contrast, Indonesians are the softest thus the easiest to hang out with, but others will look down on you for it. Think of Spongebob trying to enter the Salty Spitoon only to get told to enter Weenie Hut Jr. instead to get a good idea.
If you dismiss someone upsetting you only to get called out for failing to understand Americans and their humor, don't get defensive, admit your mistake and start growing a thicker skin. Unless you want to be around Indonesians the rest of your life.
A: "Why did you do that! That was so mean!"
B: "Bruh, you don't understand American culture, either grow a thick skin or go to Indonesia or something"
B: "Bruh, you don't understand American culture, either grow a thick skin or go to Indonesia or something"
by Someone32143214 June 14, 2023

Literally the ONLY people you'll ever get to hang out with if you don't stop taking everything so goddamn seriously and grow a thick skin.
"You take things too seriously, either grow a thick skin, or hang out with Indonesians the rest of your life"
by Someone32143214 June 14, 2023

The most sure way to make absolutely everyone hate you. It's the absolute most DESPICABLE fucking thing a human being can ever do. Bar fucking none.
I will say this once, and I will not say it again:
NEVER.
GET.
DEFENSIVE.
It'll be the absolute last fucking thing you'll ever do. Mark my fucking words.
I will say this once, and I will not say it again:
NEVER.
GET.
DEFENSIVE.
It'll be the absolute last fucking thing you'll ever do. Mark my fucking words.
by Someone32143214 August 24, 2022

The #1 most overused excuse used by Asian parents to justify beating the fuck out of their kids yet still get surprised when that only makes them even worse.
Korean kid: I can't believe you beated me up last night over crappy grades and kicked me out of the house.
Parent: It was just disciprine. I only did that because I love you.
Kid: bruh
Parent: It was just disciprine. I only did that because I love you.
Kid: bruh
by Someone32143214 January 31, 2021
