The act of leaving your boyfriend or husband while at a public venue such as a club or bar to go fuck a stranger you met and then return to your husband or boyfriend at that same venue a short time later.
by SecretPlayWife October 12, 2018
A couple in which the man shares his woman with other men for erotic NSA encounters, yet the husband is straight hetero alpha and not seeking bi play nor humiliation and the woman does not demean or sissify her man. As contrasted to cuckold/cuckoldress. Stag vixen is the other variant of the hotwifing lifestyle.
We're stag vixen so I'll watch you two guys spitroast my wife but I'm not going to fluff or clean you.
by SecretPlayWife July 01, 2021
A couple in which the man shares his woman with other men for erotic NSA encounters, yet the husband is straight hetero alpha and not seeking bi play nor humiliation and the woman does not demean or sissify her man. As contrasted to cuckold/cuckoldress. Stag vixen is the other variant of the hotwifing lifestyle.
We're stag and vixen so I'll watch you two guys spitroast my wife but I'm not going to fluff or clean you.
by SecretPlayWife August 10, 2023
A wife or girlfriend in a committed relationship who seeks a male for nsa sex with the permission of and usually in front of her stag husband or boyfriend, without any bi-sexual play or humiliation of her stag.
by SecretPlayWife March 15, 2017
Queen of Spades - a woman, usually married, who has frequent sex with endowed black men on the side, with her husband or boyfriend's permission.
Don't worry about my husband, I'm a QOS so I'll leave him here at the bar while you and your friend take me to your hotel room.
by SecretPlayWife June 30, 2018
A fit endowed guy who fucks happily-married wives and girlfriends with the husbands' and boyfriends' permission, but without the bi-play or humiliation of the other man that bulls typically engage in.
by SecretPlayWife July 19, 2017
A wife in a loving relationship who satisfies her and her husband's fantasy of sharing her sexually with other men so that their relationship explodes with sexual tension and flirtatious fun. A type of hotwifing where the couple's focus on her having sex with other men is primarily for the pleasure of the couple mutually enjoying the encounter photos and stories to heighten their marital sexual enjoyment. Often leads to significant increases in husband affection and romance of his wife.
by SecretPlayWife March 17, 2022