Definitions by Dezmene

masochist 

One who recieves pleasure (usually sexual) from being physically tortured or otherwise inflicted with pain, or humiliation. (a person who is masochistic is not necessarily a submissive, they don't go hand in hand)

James enjoyed spanking his girlfriend, being a masochist, she enjoyed it to

masochist by Dezmene May 23, 2006

sadomasochism 

a sexual practice that can be incorporated into the general lifestyle of a person by which sexual gratification is reached though torturing others or being tortured by others (usually a passion partner) or humiliating or being humiliated by others.

S&M paraphenalia can be found in many stores on Broadway, but as they are pricy sadomasochism can be a pricy lifestyle

sadomasochism by Dezmene May 23, 2006

safety word 

term used in bondage play with one or more partners which lets the partners know that play needs to stop or slow down immediately. A safety word can be any word a person desires, all partners should know everyone's safety words before starting play.

Her safety word was 'ballet', I tightened my grip on her throat and watched for the movement of her lips to tell me she'd had enough.

safety word by Dezmene May 23, 2006