A word that is almost exclusively used in Northern Ireland.
It is a rather simple insult/comeback, it means 'suck the back of them' with 'them' being testicles.
For non-Northern Irish people it is pronounced 'sucka-backy-im'. That's IM as in TIM.
John: Here mate that's my football, giz it back ya wank
James: Na mate my ma got me this one
John: Mate, its the same ball, just giz it back!
James, Na suckabackyem ye ain't gettin it.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.