girl: "Baby does my butt look big in this?"
boy: turns and stares at his girlfriends ginormous butt - "hmmm, um....maybe, possibly you could think about doing some exercycling. Maybe."
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.