It literally translates to english as “bury me” but is actually a term of endearment. Its essentially means “I hope you outlive me so that you may bury me”. You are essentially wishing them good health. It’s usually said to young children.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.