A person, usually of the male gender, who is unsure or ashamed of a character trait, that over-compensates by projecting an image opposite of that character, usually in a rude, offensive manner.

A person, usually of the male gender, who acts like a dick.
That queer went steddum on his boyfriend and called him a faggot.
by bakersfield3 October 16, 2010
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