Among the modern Asian community of North America it isn't the Chinese who work the hardest, but rather the squinty eyes. However it's the Chinese and Japanese who study more.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.