caringtoo much in what people think about you and your social status. not doing what you want to do because you're too concerned in other's view of yourself.
sally: i want to hook up with jermey.
belle: stop being so fucking socially-conscious and do it!
sally: ugh but he is weird and im scared of what people will think of me.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.