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lesbian by default 

A bi-sexual woman who chooses to exclusively remain in lesbian relationships. Still attracted to both. Pretty much a lesbian though.
She has been with guys but now realizes she likes girls more. They understand her better and she can connect more with them. She is now a Lesbian By Default
lesbian by default by bitchin45 January 19, 2009

lesbian by default 

A girl that is either atrociously ugly or an utter bitch that no guys will touch her.

Girl #1: Why does she seem so nasty and stressed all the time?

Girl #2: Well, I think it's because she's a lesbian by default.
lesbian by default by diggy March 22, 2008

lesbian by default 

a woman so ugly that no man will date them (unless she is a porn star).
Man, that bitch must be a lesbian by default.
lesbian by default by Terra February 5, 2005
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Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
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You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."
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