The act of making fun of, or teasing somebody. Although rather than using mean words, they pretend to be nice because they think it's hilarious.
Sometimes, the victim is oblivious to this and actually accepts the compliments.
Patrick: Hi Michelle! You have gorgeous freckles.
Michelle: Awh, shucks! Thanks Patrick!
Patrick: And I totally love your red hair too.
Michelle: You're so nice!
Alice: Poor girl. Patrick's making fun of in a nice way
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.