Being forced to dance at a bar or night club despite repeated saying no by your girlfriend or an otherwise unusually hot woman you think you have a chance with.
I was so drunk last night and didn't want to dance at all, but then my girlfriend forced me to dance by threatening to not have sex with me if I didn't go with her. She totally dance raped me.
When someone purchases a lap dance for an unwilling recipient, or when the dancer of the aforementioned dance is undesirable in body type, gender, ethnicity, or hygiene.
"I just bought Mike a rape dance from that humongous stripper over there, he's going to be pissed."
or
"Honey, I know I promised that I would not buy a lap dance - but my friend pooled their money and got me a rape dance"
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.