1.Someone who purposely or indirectly takes on a label and or situation as a means to look for sympathy,justify, and or clarify their position on a issue.

2. A situation in which you feel pressure, yet it is not your responsibility to take on the baggage associated with the situation.

Ex. jesus died for our sins aka was nailed to a cross...his "cross to bear"
Racist cunt: Black people commit all the crime, they have ruined america!

Tra: Fuck you! Everyone is a individual, i'm not here to appease you over this, this issue isnt my cross to bear i'm not representative of every black. We aren't all the same asswipe!
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Girl: omg...i dont want her to hate me...the guy she likes likes me and i like him also...

Guy: so what! so he likes you better, his attraction to you isnt your cross to bear, she'll get over it!
by tra90813 September 14, 2007
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A prank performed during oral sex. The male recipient ejaculates up the nose of the individual performing the act upon him. This usually leads to much enjoyment and laughter between the two parties.
It's what Alanis Morissette is talking about in the song "You Oughta Know".
by YackoWarner July 2, 2004
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Act of a woman placing her breasts around a man's penis while he thrusts, usually pressing against the woman's chest. It gets it's name from the fact that, during the act, the woman's nipples point towards each other and the sensation for the man is similar to rubbing up against a teddy bear/pillow/etc.
I asked the girl for a cross-eyed teddy bear, when she looked at me confused, I told her I'd fuck her tits.
by ISwareAlanisSangIt January 10, 2014
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Easily angered. Lookin' fer a fight!
Child: I hate math homework!!
Parent: Now, now... you're as cross as a bear with a sore bum.
by Pousquella November 17, 2017
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