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bi-lesbian 

A bi-lesbian is a female who identifies herself as mainly lesbian first, but who also enjoys occasional sex with men, but her preference being to have sex with other women.

A bisexual female that prefers sex with other women
"Yeah, I know I said I'm bisexual honey, but I do prefer doing it with other women," She told us at the club.

"My wife is bisexual, so we have this other chic we both do, but she says she is bi-lesbian and prefers to do it mostly with my wife."
bi-lesbian by TheRoc March 17, 2008
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bi-lesbian 

1.

a biromantic person who is sexually attracted to other women, primarily/exclusively, and/or primarily romantically attracted to other women
2.
a bisexual person who is romantically attracted to other women primarily or exclusively, and/or primarily sexually attracted to other women
3.
a bisexual and biromantic person who is primarily attracted to women romantically and/or sexually
4.

an identity denoting one of the following previous definitions
Person 1: I am a bi-lesbian.
Person 2: What do you mean?
Person 1: I mean I am biromantic and bisexual, but I am primarily attracted to women both romantically and sexually.
Person 2: oh ok
bi-lesbian by ThatFemaleAroace September 5, 2022

Bi-lesbian 

In lesbian relationships there are two females that take a role. What I mean by that is that one girl can be more masculine then the other or the girl can be more feminine then the other partner or they are both partners are in the middle. Some lesbian partner can both be on the more masculine side and feminine side together at the same time. The meaning of bi-lesbian is a sex of a female that can play all the roles in the lesbian relationship. This is where the meaning of bi comes in play.
Amy: I am bi-lesbian and I wanted to finally let you know that.

DMT: I will always accept you and you will always be my friend.
Bi-lesbian by DMT3487 June 8, 2021

Bi Lesbian 

1. A bisexual or biromantic person with a female or feminine gender identity who is attracted to people with female or feminine gender identities and nonbinary people.
2. A bisexual person with a female or feminine gender identity who is homoromantic.
3. A biromantic person with a female or feminine gender identity who is homosexual.
4. A bisexual or biromantic person with a female or feminine gender identity who has a heavy female leaning.
5. A double-binary or intersex person who is attracted to people with female or feminine gender identities.

The equivalent for male/masculine people being attracted to male/masculine gender identities is "bi gay".
People who say that bi lesbians don't exist don't know what the term means.
Bi Lesbian by Shugunou January 26, 2023

Bi Lesbian 

An oxymoronic label some people are insistent on using that invalidates both the bisexual and lesbian communities. If someone experiences any sort of attraction to men they are NOT a lesbian. If someone is bisexual with a preference for women they are a bisexual with a preference. Stop being afraid of calling yourself bisexual and insisting on clinging to labels that don't apply to you.
Girl 1: Yeah, I'm a bi lesbian! I'm romantically attracted to women and sexually attracted to men and women!
Girl 2: Girlie please be fr, you can't be calling yourself a lesbian if you're attracted to men in any way...
Bi Lesbian by app1ejelly January 28, 2023

Bi Lesbian 

This term is used to explain Mspec (Multisexual) people with an emphasis on attraction to women in one way or another. This term means different things to different people, but defintions include:
- A Bisexual Homoromantic
- A Homosexual Biromantic
- One who is attracted to women as well as feminine Non-binary people and wishes to not misgender Non-binary people by lumping them in with women.

- One who is attracted to more than one gender, but whose primary attraction is with women
A Bi Lesbian is NOT a Bi person with a preference for women.
(Note: This definition also applies to Pan Lesbians)
Person A: "What did you say your sexuality was again?"
Person B: "I consider myself a Bi Lesbian."
Person A: "That's right! Thank you for reminding me."
Bi Lesbian by lacklusterangel July 4, 2020

Bi Lesbian 

A bi lesbian typically refers to someone who prefers feminine nonbinary people, but doesn't want to misgender them. It can also refer to someone who is sexually attracted to women but will date men. In their minds, the 'lesbian' part in this refers not to girl on girl, but is referring to the femininity of the gender they are attracted to. This isn't the best way to call themselves, however. They should call themselves "bi with a female lean," because lesbian is a term that means female on female, and bisexual contradicts that.
I am a bi lesbian because I don't know how to word things properly.
Bi Lesbian by ManyManyMoney October 22, 2020
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