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The act of wearing something down over time
armies depending on superior numbers to defeat a smaller armys fight wars of attrition
attrition by Rich November 19, 2003
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The act of expelling bodily fluids
Sometimes also used as a business term for unimportant things
Can you wait for a sec, I have to experience some morning attrition
Attrition by Mitkoins January 7, 2017
When some mofo draws destiny higher than your immunity and you gotta lose stuff. Or vice versa.
"What? I have to lose Luke Knight AND Obi for attrition? I hate that Boba Fett Bounty Hunter shit!"
attrition by Crazzle Dazzle May 18, 2006

Attrition Argumentation

A form of argumentation, common on social media platforms like Reddit, Discord, X/Twitter, and YouTube comment sections, where the goal is not to persuade or reach truth but to exhaust the opponent into submission or madness. Practitioners use a battery of tactics: sealioning (persistent, badfaith questioning), moving the goalpost, moving the proofpost, exhaustive induction (demanding infinite details), fallacy fallacy (dismissing valid points because of a minor logical slip), objective bias (claiming one’s own view is simply “reality”), and unbiased bias (pretending to be neutral while systematically attacking one side). Attrition argumentation weaponises time and energy: the opponent must endlessly respond, and when they finally snap or withdraw, the attritionist declares victory. It turns dialogue into a war of stamina, not reason.
Example: “He asked her for a source, she provided it; he asked for a better source, she gave a meta‑analysis; then he asked for raw data from every participant. That’s attrition argumentation: win by exhausting, not by evidence.”

Attrition Logic

A distorted form of reasoning that underpins attrition argumentation, where the “logic” is that persistence, volume, and the ability to outlast the opponent are the primary measures of correctness. Attrition logic holds that if you can keep asking questions forever, the opponent’s eventual silence proves your point. It treats exhaustion as evidence, endurance as insight. It also includes meta‑rules: “a claim not proven to an impossible standard is false,” “a single unaddressed corner case invalidates the whole argument,” and “the person who stops engaging first admits defeat.” Attrition logic is not about truth; it is about designing a game the opponent cannot win.
Example: “He didn’t care about her sources; his attrition logic said that if he demanded enough clarifications, she would eventually give up, and that would mean he was right.”

Attrition Logical System

A quasi‑formal system of reasoning that enshrines attrition tactics as legitimate logical moves. In this system, “proof” is not a matter of evidence but of endurance: a proposition is considered established if the proponent can withstand all attacks without quitting, and an argument is valid if it forces the opponent into silence. The system’s rules include: infinite regress is permitted (each answer may be challenged by a further question), burden of proof is permanently assigned to one side, and any failure to respond within an arbitrary time limit counts as a concession. While no serious logician endorses it, attrition logic systems operate de facto in many online flamewars.

Example: “The subreddit’s unwritten rules followed an attrition logical system: the person who replied last after 50 exchanges was declared the winner, regardless of content.”

Attrition Debate

A debate conducted according to the principles of attrition argumentation, where winning is defined by outlasting the opponent’s patience, mental health, or will to continue rather than by superior logic or evidence. Attrition debates often feature asymmetric effort: one side produces short, dismissive posts while demanding long, detailed responses from the other. The attrition debater uses repetition, irrelevant tangents, and endless requests for clarification to drag the exchange into dozens of replies. When the opponent finally refuses to engage further, the attritionist proclaims “I win by default.” It is the debate equivalent of a siege, not a fencing match.
Example: “The thread had 400 comments, most of them him demanding she explain basic concepts over and over. She stopped replying after three days, and he announced he had won the attrition debate.”

Attrition Discussion

A discussion that has been hijacked by attrition argumentation tactics, transforming a potentially collaborative exchange into a draining, hostile grind. Unlike a good‑faith discussion where participants seek mutual understanding, an attrition discussion is a one‑sided endurance test. One party (or a small group) sets the pace: they ask endless questions, ignore answers already given, shift topics abruptly, and reject any summary as insufficient. The other party is forced to repeat themselves, scroll back for evidence, and spend hours crafting replies that will be met with “I don’t see how that answers my question.” Eventually, the target either leaves or breaks down, at which point the attritionist claims victory.

Example: “She joined what looked like a friendly discussion about politics, but by the third day she was losing sleep fact‑checking his repetitive claims. It was an attrition discussion, not a debate.”

cast-attrition thriller 

A film sub-genre in which the characters are picked off one by one, often by a masked killer or malignant force. Salient examples: Friday the 13th (Jason); Final Destination (Death); Sunshine (the Sun).

Coined by Tasha Robinson of the AV Club to describe Danny Boyle's film "Sunshine"(2007).
Originating quote, from the review of "Sunshine"(2007) -
In many ways, Sunshine is a been-there-done-that cast-attrition thriller: Alien with an exterior monster instead of an interior one, Event Horizon with better effects and less gore, Pitch Black with the contrast turned way up. The cast members make wry jokes about getting eliminated one at a time, horror-movie style, but they still follow all the horror-movie procedures, even duly splitting up in a dangerous, unknown situation. It's like they've gracefully accepted that they're just hitting a series of predestined, genre-mandated marks. - Tasha Robinson, Onion A.V. Club
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Coyote Ugly

1. Place

The Bar came before the movie. It is an awesome bar where the girls know how to party and make you feel okay about giving up your money, drawers, bras, and dignity.

2. Movie

A story about a Jersey girl following her dreams, aided by working at this bar in New York.

3. Situation/Person/Decision

See other definitions - waking up next to someone so ugly you'd rather chew your arm off than wake them up.
1. Yo, Coyote Ugly is my favorite bar! I got whipped, stripped, drunk, and danced on the bar all before 7 o'clock!

2. Hey did you see Coyote Ugly? It actually has a plot!

3. Ugg I woke up to Coyote Ugly this morning!
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Literally 1984 

Used in response for when someone promotes/advocates an event or idea that is perceived to support "too much" authority and/or government control.

Often used jokingly as a over-exaggeration in political talk.

Can also be used in response to a ban or mute in a forum site or online chat.
Steve: I think that the government should regulate businesses more
Bob: Literally 1984!

--User1 has been permantly banned--
User2: You cant ban my friend like that! Literally 1984!
Literally 1984 by ke1 July 7, 2021
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Back when I lived in upstate new york 

A meaningless, unimpressive, self-serving introduction. An indicator that the story about to be shared will be pointless and dumb.
Back when I lived in upstate new york, I also had to park on the street - on two occasions, we got enough snow, mixed with just the right plowing, that my car was lifted off the ground from so much snow being jammed underneath it.
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Acronym, meaning Too Long Didn't Understand
Similar to TLDR
Sister: This meeting was to discuss the rough draft of my essay, where we discussed the subsidiary questions I added in my rough draft. We also discussed the relationship between my main title and the real-life situations I chose to use in my essay. We discussed the structure of my essay as well, specifically the Math AOK section and how it relates to the contradiction of the title. This second meeting was particularly helpful in discussing the implications of my essay claims and how to apply the title across various areas of knowledge. There were many sections of the essay that could have been cut down in wordiness and the ways of knowing required further and more in-depth analysis.

Me: Woah! TLDU!
TLDU by L-Evans January 14, 2019
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